The TV drama "The man who cannot get married" has a high audience rating and became a hot topic for discussion. (this is the official site) A highly capable architect, played by Hiroshi Abe, has an enviable high degree, high income and high height. However since he is ironic and can't catch the mood, feeling of conversation. ( we say "read the air" in Japanese) He makes impertinent comments often and can't make a good relationship with a woman. For example, he says "after marriage, my income will be gobbled up by the wife and kids". "Marriage will means I will have to have double family problem".
But such guy is easy to find in real society not only in TV shows. I mean a guy thinks of only his own happiness and he is lacking sensitivity is an increasing number after 1990. Formerly a son gets huge pressure from his parents about marriage and also he senses it at his job too. But recently such pressure is getting weaker and weaker, a guy can continue his single life if he wants.
Here is the result of the research "The reason why I don't get married".
1.I don't have an encounter.
2.I can't meet an ideal partner.
3.I have not enough income.
4.There is no reason.
5.I don't want to lose my freedom.
6.I don't want to lose money that I can spend freely.
7.I don't have self-confidence.
8.It is troublesome.
9.I don't care about marriage system.
10.I can't make good association with woman.
11.I Want to Enjoy Hobby and Leisure.
12.I want to enjoy my time. 13.I can't feel "I need it".
Then a funny part is this. "Woman think - this is the reason why he can't (doesn't) get married.-"
1.No matter how old I get, he tris to find 20-something beautiful girl.
2.He hopes a domestic woman.
3.He hopes to find someone who can understand him very much, even thought he doesn't know it by himself.
4.He is ready to back out even if he has a chance.
5.He believes seriously "man should wear just simple, should not be fashionable"
6.He doesn't say "I love you, marry me!" and he is waiting for her saying it.
7.His parents didn't have a happy marriege and also there is no happy couple around him.
8.He has no female friends but he defiantly declares it's no problem.
9.He graduated all-boy school, also there is only guys at work too. He always hung around with guys.
Ha ha ha those are keen comments, don't you think so? But speaking of selfish, women are same though, check out this post and this post too. *